Stagers forgive spontaneously and without effort because we have fully embraced our damaged childhood and grieved every honest ounce of our misery.

We who are dissociated feel we have mastered forgiveness. But this is only because we completely deny the harm done to us – and the damage remaining. Stagers forgive spontaneously and without effort because we have fully embraced our damaged childhood and grieved every honest ounce of our misery.